So this post will be an open letter ~ and I just want to say that this is a rather sexist post. I am a feminist but I love men, I believe in EQUALITY not dominance of women and I strongly believe that any bad thing I say about men could easily be matched by a billion things that are worse about women. I am both biased and limited to my own experiences (which are INCREDIBLY restricted) so I can only hope that the same people to whom this letter is addressed forgive me, because I am only a woman ;)
Dear Men / Boys of Australia and the World,
Hows running the world working out for you?
*cough* IRAQ *cough* AFGHANISTAN *cough* INEQUALITY *cough*
sorry!! I have a tickle in my throat.....
Let me test your intelligence on a more simple scale (now that it has been proven on a larger one) what do these things have in common:
It starts with a V and has
9 letters
6 constants
3 vowels
So, whats your deal with Virginity? I’ll be honest and say that I am PISSED; I feel as if a woman can’t win, either your a virgin and frigid or not and a whore. Its so UNFAIR!
If a girl is in a great relationship then it doesn’t matter if she’s a virgin or not ~ if she wants to sleep with you she will ~ unless she’s religious and saving herself for marriage...
in which case .... yeah .... you’ve got no hope. BUT YOU KNOW WHAT?? you should respect that too!!
This one time I was at a bar, talking to this guy (while all of my friends were hooking up with attractive men) and we were discussing my lack of pick ups (a rather depressing topic) and he looked me up and down, sighed and said:
“Look, there are some girls you fuck and some girls you marry and your the kind guys marry”
WHY??!! REALLY?? why can’t a Woman be both? we have Libidos too!! Why do you have to categorise us? Is being pure so important a trait to have in a wife, because I would think that having sex with a virgin is rather boring ~ not quite a quality I would want in someone I am being monogamous with the rest of my life.....
I will never admit to reading such a crash website as “FML” but this is a post from it :
WOW. I hope this is made up, this is the kind of stuff that makes me want to throw up a little in my mouth (spit it into a glass, mix it with the blood of someone with HIV, then force feed it to that boyfriend). I think it is so sad that this boy judged the entirety of his girlfriends character on intactness of her hymen.
Oh and another thing....why doesn’t YOUR virginity matter? Its not like you know what your doing either. I think you are making things harder on yourselves ~ by putting all the emphasis on women being coy and uninterested you create pressure for yourselves to be the instigators, the experts and the performers. That must suck, but its all your own fault.
So, when you ask a girl your dating if she slept with anyone, go and watch that movie “Time machine”, copy down the formulas on his chalk board, build a time machine, get in it, go back to the moment before you said it and tell her she’s beautiful instead. After that, you should you do things to make her want to sleep with you.......because if she’s with you she probably will want to anyway (she has hormones too!!).
But be careful though!!! men aren’t the only ones capable of “using” women...shocking but true. I know women who “used” men. Men who loved them and slept with them as an expression of this love, sadly it wasn’t returned by their girlfriends.
We are less different then you realise .... if you have thought about it, then HOT DAMN! she has too and EVERYONE, boys AND girls, are capable of the same things, hurtful things, heart breaking things, lovely things and beautiful things.
I guess the point is RESPECT and LOVE, thats the important thing, everything else is extra....wonderful, glorious extras.
Peace out
and I hope you all find love ..... and nookie ;)
Bridie
xoxox
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